Jesse James tries to lie his way out of mischief.
What I would give to have some celebrity cheater like Jesse James actually tell the truth about their infidelity.
Here’s what James said today about his affair with a tattoo artist:
“It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way,” he says in the statement. “This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.”
Poor judgment?
What do you think is the real reason he cheated on Sandra Bullock?
Because she’s a bitch?
Because she’s frigid in bed?
Because she constantly nags him about that ridiculous beard — and everything else he is or does?
Because she acts like the world revolves around her and he’s just some minor actor living in her world?
Because he’s a man and he got tired of sleeping with the same-old, same-old?
Or, how about, because he is a man, and this is what men do when they have no self-control and just want to get laid with some hot-assed bitch who doesn’t pretend she’s his mother?
One way or another, it takes two to make a marriage. It takes two to break a marriage. For James to take all the responsibility on himself is noble. But it is a lie. And Sandra Bullock knows it.
Why sex is good for you!
by Peter Wilson
Sex! Such a great thing right? (Well duh!) We all know it feels good, can make us snap out of a bad mood and can make us sleep much better, but recent studies show just how good it really is for you!
Studies now show that more “good” comes from sex than you may have ever realized! Ever notice how after sex you feel so much better? That’s because studies have proven that sex relieves stress and lowers blood pressure. Sex is also good for combating the common cold. That’s because frequent sex boosts immunity by increasing levels of immunoglobulin A or IgA.
For those of you wanting to lose some weight, well, increase the “lovey dovey” time! Experts agree that sex is a great exercise and studies show that 30 minutes of sex can burn about 85 calories! Do the math and you’ll see just how much calories you can burn! If you are like most people, you’d probably rather spend time burning calories in the bedroom rather that on some treadmill at the gym.
Now, one of the more important benefits of sex is the effect it has on the cardiovascular system. In a study that was published in the Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, researchers found that men who have sex two or more times per week reduced their chances of a fatal heart attack by half. That’s right!…by half! That is definitely worth noting!
Sex also increases levels of oxytocin which improves intimacy and causes levels of endorphins to rise, thus reducing pain and giving a person a natural high. Studies have also shown that men who had frequent sex in their earlier years had lower chances of developing prostate cancer. Frequent sex was defined as two to three times a week.
Lastly, sex strengthens the pelvic floor. This comes in handy later on in life! By having a strong pelvic floor, a person lowers their chances of having incontinence.
Restoring Trust in a Relationship: Getting Your Ex Back After an Affair.
by Karen Martinez
How do you get your ex back even after you’ve cheated? Some people claim that an affair should always end a relationship. But I disagree. I believe that every relationship is savable if both parties really want to work on it. This article is about restoring trust in relationships.
Restoring trust in relationships requires an adjustment in attitude and actions. Even after an affair, it is possible to save a relationship. But that starts with ramping up the level of trust within the couple.
If you have had an affair, you have had an attitude which allowed you to stray. There may be something at the relationship’s core that is diseased. But you can heal the disease. What was it that you were looking for when you strayed? Was the sex humdrum? Was she too busy for you? Was she just not spending enough time on her grooming? You wouldn’t have had an affair if the primary relationship was perfect. So, what needs to be done to fix it? Often that lies in self analysis. But just as often, that lies in the couple’s relationship.
Restoring trust in relationships means fixing the underlying problems. Sometimes that means going into couples counseling. But just understanding our thoughts isn’t enough. The next step is to take concrete action in fixing the problems.
The secret to restoring trust in relationships lies not in talking about the right things, but in doing the right things.
One of the biggest things you can do is to make small promises and keep them. If you promise to take the trash out every evening, do it. And, do it consistently. When you demonstrate that you can be trusted in the small things, a gradual sense of confidence will be realized in the larger picture of the relationship.
Your girlfriend or wife is going to need constant reassurance that you have changed. This means that you are going to need to apologize more than once over time. You will also need to treat the recurring comments about the violation of trust as a matter of course. It is not easy for her to forgive the breach. If you want to stay with her, you will be patient with her.
This does not mean that you must feel guilty about the indiscretion forever. In fact, if you allow her to constantly guilt trip you, she will not be satisfied in the new relationship you are building. Just be understanding.
Finally, you need to put a positive spin on the incident. Treat it as an opportunity for both of you to grow as individuals and for the relationship to mature. Just as a bone grows stronger at the place it has been broken, a relationship can improve after an affair.
Restoring trust in a relationship takes time. It requires that you change both your attitudes and actions. But it is possible to heal the divide and be a stronger couple as a result.
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