Forget all the other stuff, basically women go for men with expensive cars.
Somewhere back in the middle of the 20th century, someone starting spreading the malicious idea that what women want is a man who is sensitive, intelligent, sensual, mature, a good listener, and kind to pets, kids, and her girlfriends. Being handsome and having a good “package” were, of course, assumed to be important.
Now, as we enter the second decade of a new century, we are learning that all that other stuff is superfluous. A new study tells us what we’ve always known — most women are unabashedly shallow human beings who put financial assets far ahead of any other personal trinkets we might bring to the relationship.
In the study, most women found men more attractive when they drove an expensive, fancy car. Men, on the other hand, did not find women who drove expensive cars to be more attractive. They did, however, find women with large breasts to be more attractive.
At least that makes sense.
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Jesse James tries to lie his way out of mischief.
What I would give to have some celebrity cheater like Jesse James actually tell the truth about their infidelity.
Here’s what James said today about his affair with a tattoo artist:
“It’s because of my poor judgment that I deserve everything bad that is coming my way,” he says in the statement. “This has caused my wife and kids pain and embarrassment beyond comprehension and I am extremely saddened to have brought this on them. I am truly very sorry for the grief I have caused them. I hope one day they can find it in their hearts to forgive me.”
Poor judgment?
What do you think is the real reason he cheated on Sandra Bullock?
Because she’s a bitch?
Because she’s frigid in bed?
Because she constantly nags him about that ridiculous beard — and everything else he is or does?
Because she acts like the world revolves around her and he’s just some minor actor living in her world?
Because he’s a man and he got tired of sleeping with the same-old, same-old?
Or, how about, because he is a man, and this is what men do when they have no self-control and just want to get laid with some hot-assed bitch who doesn’t pretend she’s his mother?
One way or another, it takes two to make a marriage. It takes two to break a marriage. For James to take all the responsibility on himself is noble. But it is a lie. And Sandra Bullock knows it.
Building a positive relationship with those that count.
By Gary Gzik
Do you struggle at building a more positive relationship with those that you care for? It’s no secret that our society has most of us running off our feet and failing to put the proper effort into building relationships with those that matter most to us. But, it’s vitally important to spend time nurturing the bonds we have with those around us.
Most relationships require some amount of work. Some will take less effort than others and seem to take form almost instantly. But, because this rarely happens, we do need to spend time nurturing our relationships when we can. Remember, it doesn’t matter how easily your relationships take form, even the seemingly perfect relationships can have their ups and downs.
That being said, let’s explore what exactly makes for a positive relationship.
For starters, and I know this will be one of the hardest, but quality time does the trick. Whether you want a positive relationship with your significant other, your parents, your child or even a friend, you are going to have to schedule in some one on one time with them. This sounds easy at first, but if you sit back for a moment and think of all the people you’d like to do this with and then your schedule for the next couple of weeks, how easy is it really going to be? Obviously, trying to arrange time to spend together can be challenging, especially after you factor in their busy schedule as well. No matter what though, you must still try. It may be a weekly or daily arrangement, either way you need to treat it like you would an appointment. Try not to renege, especially if it’s with a child.
To ensure you enjoy the time you are spending with others, you should try and do something that’s fun. Seeing a movie together, going out for dinner, or taking a stroll in the park are things that can accomplish this. You don’t want your relationship to be boring. If you want to create a stronger bond, you need to choose something that you will both enjoy doing – not only will you have fun, it will have you looking forward to the next time you’re supposed to meet up.
Building a positive relationship with your significant other isn’t always easy. Of course you want to spend time with them, but with everyone else on your list, you know they’ll understand if you leave them till the end. When time has you struggling to get together with them, remember that your relationship goes a little deeper – and you don’t have to be together to reward from each other’s input in the relationship.
When you do have moments at home together, remember that helping out around the house is an attempt that doesn’t go unnoticed. Don’t expect to be waited on hand and foot and leave all the work for your partner. Doing chores isn’t always fun, but if you both work at them, they will be done much sooner and you will have more time to spend together later.
For those of you with busy families, sometimes it’s hard to get away and have Mom and Dad time. No matter what, you should always take a few minutes at the end of the day to sit and talk about how each other’s days went. Simply explain to your children that it is your time and you will be finished in a few minutes. Most children will cherish the idea that their parents enjoy spending time together. When you are done, ask your children to come in and join you – spend a little family time. Just remember, those few minutes with each other means putting away the cell phones and any other distractions that don’t allow you to focus on each other.
No matter who you’re building the relationship with, you need to make sure you can really talk to them. Listening to each other and showing concern will definitely help you build a stronger positive relationship with each other. Really being able to sit back, listen and understand is just as important as sharing your side of the story. Sometimes we allow distractions in or our mind starts wandering into the unknown, if this is the case, you may not be involving yourself in the conversation as much as you could be.
No matter who you’re building a positive relationship with, it will take patience and perseverance. No one said it would be easy, however the benefits you receive will be well worth the effort.
Gary Gzik is a Corporate Trainer and CEO of the business consulting company BizXcel, Inc. which owns and operates Getting to Someday, a place where people go to achieve their goals and dreams. Gary also wrote “A Journey Towards Your Dreams”, a book that inspires people to achieve their dreams through a positive attitude and positive relationships – claim your free copy today at http://www.gettingtosomeday.com/discover-positive-attitude-secret
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