“I Think My Husband Is Having An Affair” — What Women Look For To Find Out If You’ve Been Cheating.

August 30, 2008 · Posted in Men, Men At Home, Sex, Women · Comment 

Editor’s Note: The best way to avoid getting caught is not to cheat. Failing that, the next best way is to know what will tip off your SO that you ARE cheating. Here’s what one woman advises other women to look for.

It’s difficult for any woman to utter the words “I think my husband is having an affair.” We never want to believe that the man we love is being unfaithful to us. The truth is that many married men commit adultery and as women it’s up to us to know the warning signs. Although it’s been said that ignorance is bliss, it’s not the case when your husband is involved in an intimate relationship with another woman.

There are many glaring warning signs when you suspect that your husband is committing adultery. If you’ve ever said to yourself “I think my husband is having an affair” it’s likely because your intuition told you something was amiss. One reason this often happens is when a husband suddenly is home less. The usual excuse is that his time away is attributed to extra work. There are a couple of ways to determine if he’s actually putting in extra hours at his job. One is to check his pay check to see if the extra hours are accounted for and another is to simply call him at work.

Another sign that your husband may be spending time with another woman is how he reacts when his cell phone rings. Many extramarital affairs are conducted in part over the internet and cell phone. If your husband suddenly leaves the room when his cell phone rings this is something you should be concerned about. By the same token, if he closes himself in a room when he’s using the computer or he covers the monitor with his hand when you enter, that’s not a good sign. If you have the opportunity to check his cell phone or computer when he’s not around, that can yield even more concrete clues as to whether or not he’s having an affair and who it is with.

It’s often hard to know whether your husband is indeed committing adultery. Many men can have a long term affair without anyone suspecting a thing. In fact, seventy percent of married women have no idea when their husband is having an affair. For telltale signs of a cheating husband, and how to get irrefutable and undeniable proof of the affair within moments visit this helpful site.

Although the aftermath of finding out whether or not your husband is cheating can be devastating, it’s much better to know. You owe it to yourself and your children to know the truth.